There are many people who get failed in their lives. Some people do not stand again after seeing their failures. Some people invest their money, emotions, time, energy, dreams and a lot more to achieve their dreams. If they do not get what they want then they get stressed, demotivated and dependent on others. This is something extraordinarily wrong. A person has to take his decisions himself at any cost. Do it right or wrong but do it yourself. It is your life and you are answerable to your Lord and you. Today, we are talking about some steps which you should do if you face failures in your life. Do not demotivate, discourage or degrade yourself. Be confident and a true lover of yourself if you wish to achieve in your life.
Do not share your failures in your social network:
If you find yourself getting failed in a stuff that is quite important to you then do not share it with anyone. There are few people who understand you, who respect humanity and encourage you. Majority of them discourage you, take you wrong, show your poor directions and least of them laugh at you. Your failure is yours. Your success is yours. It is not shareable or displayable. Just keep on doing what you want to do. Your success will speak itself. But stop sharing your bad points, failures and everything before getting successful to your social circle or to those people who can directly talk to you about it. Yes, you can share it with your closest friend or mentor only if he is actually sincere to you, only in this case.
Take time, sit alone and think:
Take time, sit alone and think that what you have achieved, what you have not achieved and why you did not achieve what you wanted. These are the questions that need to be answered in a calm, gentle and polite way. This answer will come to you from your mind, heart and soul. You know the reason. You just need to seek it. Giving time to your own self is one of the most important things in the world to do. Do not think that it has no importance. It has major importance. If you do something wrong then before getting panic or behaving unusual, wait and focus on what actually happened to you.
Re-plan, do it again and move on:
If you see yourself failed then do not wait and re-plan it. You need to understand that life means both success and failure. If you get failed then it does not mean that you cannot do it. You may deserve something better than that or you can still achieve that. You can do anything if you understand. Just stay focused on what you want to achieve. If you have your life left then it means that it should be spent. If you need to spend it then why do not you live it? Think about it. Try to understand life.
Keep on trying with real experiments:
If you have experimented something and you got failed then again you experimented something and got failed then it does not mean that you can never be successful. You can be successful. It may be the cause that what you are trying is not right for you or you are not putting right efforts or trying to achieve it from a correct path or medium.
Stay focused on what you want to have in the end:
What is life? What does it give in the end? It actually ends one day. You should understand that your failure is not more than the end of your life that is absolutely going to happen one day. Instead of crying, demotivating, wasting, degrading and discouraging yourself, stand up, think and move on to do something better and achievable than before. Life has colors and you should live all the colors. What a person wants before his death? He wants to be happy and contented. Keep on trying and do not feel bad because of your failures or ruin your life. Try to be happy because you wish to die happily in the end.
